You will be glad to know that my client successfully completed her writing course, met her future husband (who was her course teacher and a movie director/producer) and wrote a short story. She also developed a unique healing ability of which she had been previously unaware. She now lives between two countries, writes, and is a healer. She needed to express her creativity and healing and the blockages she originally experienced forced her to re-balance herself and acknowledge key threads within it her life.  In order to achieve her true potential, she needed to weave a particular pattern, her self-actualization, using all her talents and abilities.

Designing the pattern of your life
I believe that women, generally, and people with stronger feminine aspect, intuitively understand that need to see the whole picture, the holistic pattern of destiny- that is the creative power of the feminine.

Your Life's Patern

As an exercise I suggest that you sit quietly with a blank sheet of paper and a pen, and that you draw a circle to represent your being, copying the diagram “Your Life’s Pattern” in this article.

• From the centre of the circle, draw eight lines representing spokes of wheel at right angles to each other.
  
  
• Now mark 9 equal segments along each line, so that the 10^th mark is actually the circumference of the circle.
  
  
• Label the end of each spoke, or thread, with the important elements in your life. For example: family & friends, job/career, health/fitness, personal development (interests and talents), money/finances, happiness/joy; creativity; and love.  There are eight examples here, but you can add others or use fewer examples, the important thing is to realise that the pattern of your life is made up from a number of threads.
  
  
• Make several photo copies of this drawing, put the date down on the one you are about to complete now, before you go on to the next step.
  
  
• Take the centre of the circle to represents zero (totally dissatisfied), and the outer edge represent 10 (totally satisfied). Along each thread, or spoke, mark a cross (x) according to the current level of satisfaction in that area of your life.
  
  
• Finally, draw a line joining all the crosses together, and see how balanced is the ‘shape’ of your life. This will give you a clear picture as to what thread needs to be strengthened and to where to focus your energies.